My genealogy madness today is the wording in genealogy programs when it comes to women (or men) who had children without ever having been married at all. There has got to be a more tactful way than 'so and so had a relationship with someone and had so and so' when making a report. There has got to be a software out there somewhere that lets you manipulate the wording to fit the situation!
Hey -- maybe good ole Tom knows the answer to this (wink wink). ; - )